Rejection in dating quote
So I decided to open my heart, allow myself to be vulnerable and welcome the risk of hurt. ” In fact, within a day, I was smiling and back to my usual jolly, positive self.
Not long after, I met someone who I liked and was excited about. One of the results of constant self-work and mindfulness is strengthening your tenacity to get back to equilibrium. I’m not saying that there should be a rush to get out of the uncomfortable feelings, but I do know it gets easier to bounce back through experience. It’s the universe helping you close a door so you can make room for another one to open.
Chalk it up to experience and a learning lesson, and you will evolve.
But if you become jaded, you ultimately get in your own way of joy and happiness.
But while he started off with romantic interest, he later made it clear that he did not feel the same way. I realized that all those years of strategic navigating to avoid rejection was silly. If this were five years ago, I would have taken it personally. That’s how you create a life worth living, and a story worth telling…
If I liked someone and he didn’t like me back, I would store that as a message that something was wrong with me, that I wasn’t good enough, hard-to-get enough, or enough. Don’t ever give someone the power to determine your worth. When I interview healthy, happy couples, this is the one commonality I keep hearing.
You really don’t have to try so hard to make someone like you. And if you’ve been disappointed in a relationship or have felt rejected or abandoned, I promise you, one day, it will all make sense why it didn’t work out with that person. Don’t give so much power to a person who was never meant to be in the permanent cast of your life story. For example, when you search for a film, we use your search information and location to show the most relevant cinemas near you.We also use this information to show you ads for similar films you may like in the future.Glaring red flags, incompatibility, and toxic baggage – that’s another story. If we don’t have a healthy sense of self-esteem, we allow the feeling of rejection to disintegrate our own self-worth.Those are definitely issues that surface and can make an emotionally healthy person re-evaluate your romantic potential. It’s as if the lack of romantic interest from someone else somehow reduces your own value.