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The facts on herpes are actually quite clear when you do research online: herpes transmission is not that simple, particularly when both parties make an effort to use condoms, antivirals, dental dams, and so forth.I know couples who have gone years without transmitting by being honest with each other about when they are having outbreaks.Although individual symptoms depend on your overall health and the strain you carry, for many folks herpes is an uncomfortable initial outbreak and mild recurrences, if any.My first outbreak was quite painful because it coincided with an infected spider bite, but now I show symptoms so rarely that I pose no credible risk to my partners 99% of the time.The person most likely to give you herpes is the person who doesn’t know they have it in the first place.On the other hand, herpes itself honestly isn’t that big of a deal for most of us.But too often my impulse to capitulate to people who stems from a desire to seem chill. At the end of the day, STI stigma is a form of prejudice.I am afraid of being that ranting feminist with herpes who seems to think herpes is great. It perpetuates a preconceived notion of someone’s moral character and individual worth based on a skin condition that itself is not a barometer of value or happiness.
It is free to join, anonymous, and you can meet people with Genital Herpes in the chat rooms and on the message boards.Everyone with genital herpes can join us regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation or gender. Here’s another pet peeve of my email inbox: when a man (because it’s almost always a man) asks me if he should continue seeing this woman he’s been dating who just told him she has herpes.I don’t want to be the selfless Mother Teresa of herpes.It’s far more fun to be the loud, controversial and brilliant Kanye West of herpes.