Asian guys sleeping with white girls why dating

No, I can’t confirm if Asian women have tight vaginas. Assume I would be a passive, submissive, and obedient partner.

Here’s basic manners 101: never comment or inquire on an individual’s body unless they grant you permission to do. Unless we’re dating and I’ve explicitly expressed to you I enjoy being submissive in the relationship or bedroom, don’t automatically assume I will conform to these gender and race roles solely because I’m Asian.

As author Chin Lu points out in her article , “Why do some men make the automatic assumptions that I am quiet, docile, great at domestic tasks, eager to please men, and my vagina is more magical than average? Go away.”Like the example provided in the image on the left, justifying your Asian fetish with “I just think Asian women are far more superior in looks and intelligence” is racist and sexist.

[Am I] supposed to feel complimented when those people are attracted to me? The screenshot of You Tuber Anna Akana sums it up perfectly. Telling me you find me attractive because you find women of other races unattractive is not a compliment. In Shimizu’s article, The Hypersexuality of Race: Performing Asian/American Women on Screen and Scene, she says the sexuality of Asian women are often “framed in rivalry with a white women in terms of competing for idealized heterosexual femininity.” As an intersectional feminist, I will not tolerate anyone that thinks I should be flattered that I’m considered “superior” to people I stand beside, not against.

I’m not even Mandarin; I’m Cantonese, which is an entirely different dialect.When you compartmentalize your compliment, you imply that I’m an exception in my race.I can be pretty without being pretty and I can have a certain figure without it being considered deviant from my race.When you say stuff like, “How do you not like anime? ” or “I actually have a Chinese tribal tattoo and started taking karate lessons,” what you’re telling me is that you want me to be a certain type of Asian girl that you can bond over East Asian culture with.While it’s admirable that you’re learning about different cultures than your own, but you might be appropriating Asian culture more than you think (and that’s a fine line you don’t want to cross).

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